He must create plausible denial every day, all day, and by honing his skills as a pathological liar, all bases are clearly covered.
In a narcissist’s mind, the decision to lie as much as possible – if not all the time – is a no-brainer because it eliminates the possibility of him having to think too hard about lying specifically. It isn’t a symptom of his disorder – it’s downright intentional! To tell a white lie here and there and only when absolutely necessary would do a narcissist no good because he is always up to no good and, therefore, it’s necessary to lie all the time.
Long ago, based on my own experiences, I determined that the act of pathologically lying is nothing short of a deliberate narcissistic/sociopathic strategy for getting away with all the crap that a narcissist needs to get away with day to day. No human being on the planet should have to deal with all the lies that we deal with in just this one relationship! Why the hell do we put up with that? Why the hell do you put up with that? And how the hell does he keep getting away with it? If we really wanted the truth, we need not look any further than the lie itself and therein lies all the justification we need for walking away. When we feed into this nonsense, what are we really hoping to find? The truth? We already know what the truth is yet we become hellbent on hearing it from him (as if, by some miracle, that would ever happen). Word garbage! Sure, we’re talking little lies here but a narcissist’s little lies are many – and they’re all intentional. W: Then obviously I wasn’t trying to hide anything! Could we get past this please? Me: I wasn’t snooping, Wayne, it was right here on the counter. W: Oh please…I’m so sick of this…What are you doing? Snooping around my receipts now? Me: It doesn’t matter! I just don’t get why you would deliberately lie about something so stupid? W: Jesus Christ! What’s the fucking difference? Why does it matter? I’m just curious why you made a point of saying Bookman’s when obviously you were at Barnes & Nobles. Me: Well, it isn’t a big deal and I’m not accusing you of anything. W: So? What’s the big deal? What are you accusing me of now? I thought you said you bought it at Bookmans. Me: I’m just asking a simple question, that’s all. Me: The book you bought yesterday…the one about making guitars. Me: Where did you say you bought that book? And, because I simply couldn’t help myself, I’d have to address it and the ensuing conversations would go something like this: How crazy is that? Whatever I would find would almost always contradict what he had told me. For example, to practice the art of pathological lying (I assume), he would tell at least one lie every day while, at the same time, deliberately leaving evidence of the truth – such as a store receipt – in plain view where I could find it. I remember how, as the years passed, I could see this particular talent of his blossoming right before my very eyes. I was thinking about my ex today and about all of the incredible lies he told me. Narcissists and sociopaths live and breathe by a pathological relationship agenda from which they will never waiver – even if it takes years. Sure, it’s the easy way out and exactly what the narcissistic partner wants but the alternative is even worse. You become so fucking tired from sifting through his word-garbage for a speck of truth that you opt for the lesser of two evils – believing the lie. He’ll lie so much about so many things that your head will spin. To a narcissist, lying – just like the faking of emotions – is means to an end. I think that a narcissist lies (all the time) because it’s an easy way to devastate the recipient and because lying allows the narcissist/sociopath to recreate himself at will (and on a whim), thus creating an environment where he can always be giving himself props for getting away with something. Some believe the N lies because he actually believes the lie but I disagree. The narcissist lies by making things up and also by leaving things out – and he/she does it all in amazing detail.
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Change Your Life!Īmazon Today – Only $3.99 Click Here to Order from Amazon: Download Version & Paperback Available He’ll lie about his intentions towards everything – big or small – and he’ll tell you he loves you when he loves nothing at all. He’ll lie about his past, his future, his family, and his exes. This means that he’ll lie about which super market he shopped at, where he stopped for gas, the hours he worked and what days he has off. He/she also lies even when the truth is a better story. A narcissist is a pathological liar who will lie about anything and everything for the sole purpose of gleefully watching you sift through the word garbage.
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